Remember this post? - NKOTB Tonight!!!!

That's right I now hold in my hand my ticket to the NKOTB concert on 11-22-08. No you aren't seeing things this 31 year old, soon to be mother of two is going to the NKOTB concert. Tonight is the night and I cannot wait!

Ohhh, those were the days - back when I was 12. Back when my wall was plastered with Teen Beat magazine posters of NKOTB and other hotty boy crushes. Back when my babysitting money and allowance was spent buying the latest scrunchy, Aqua net hairspray and Teen Beat magazines.

NKOTB was my 1st concert. One that I almost didn't get to go to. But my father insisted it would be okay and to let me go even when my mother objected. So my friend Andrea and I waited in line for 8hrs at Bell Square to buy our tickets. Then the night of the concert we made signs, got all glamorized in our "cool" concert gear and headed to the T-Dome to see our favorite guys. (I have pictures of us - I will have to find them and post them) I was in love with Joey and she Jordan. We were convinced we were going to meet them and marry them.

Flash forward 19 years.......I am 31 years old, pregnant (well newly given birth) & going to see my "guys" again. Ohh, yes pregnancy..... My due date has been stated as 11-5 or 11-9 somewhere in that vicinity. So if for some reason this baby comes late I will literally be a week post birth going to this concert. I am now over a month post-delivery. But it will all be worth it. So on 11-22-08 my five friends and I will hop into a minivan, pop in the newest NKOTB CD and jam our way down to the T-Dome to see our guys.

Just so you're all clear my husband thinks I'm crazy. He thinks all of my friends and I are crazy. I think he's just scared that he will have to watch a newborn and a 13 month old alone that night ;o) Well he isn't watching the girls tonight - G & G are as he will be working late.

Till the CD comes out & the concert arrives I will "Step by Step" my way through my pregnancy, tell my husband "You got the right stuff", "Keep on Smilin" cuz "I'll Still Be Loving You" and as I head out the door he'll probably say "Please Dont Go Girl" but I'll be "Hanging Tough" at the concert with my guys.

I'll post about our concert night adventures in a few days.

Friday Night date night

Last night Bill and I had a great date night. Now I know you're all dying to know where we went and what we did.

Know where our date night was?.......In our car. Yep that's right....Bill forgot Ellia's antibiotic at work. (she has an ear infection, that's a whole other post about taking two sick little girls to the doctor...by myself) So instead of waiting till Sunday when we could get back down there to get it we drove down to his store after dinner.

Now I know what you're thinking.....How can a drive in the car be romantic? But I'm here to tell you it was.

We dressed the girls in their jammies, gave Ellia some warm milk and both got a dosage of baby Tylenol. (Ellia for pain in her ear & Addie for her slight fever) We loaded them into the car and in about 20 minutest they were both sleeping like babies should.

While we drove there and back we talked about how our day went, work, family, friends, sex and the approaching holidays. It was really, really nice. And on the way home we stopped and got milkshakes.

Truly a nice Friday night date in an unusual way!

Fun with some leaves

"What's this all about mom?"

"Please Be careful with your little sister"

I can't move, take the picture

"This leaf was all worth the trauma"

I decided I wanted pictures of the girls in all the leaves dumped in our backyard from the maple tree. (which went bye-bye yesterday cause it was dead & dangerous during wind storms) So Bill raked up all the leaves and put the girls in them. These were our shots. Ellia didnt like them at first but warmed up to them, especially after she discovered her own leaf.

Men are just little boys at heart

Monday afternoon the girls were asleep and so I decided to settle down for a little rest myself.

Picture this....gas fireplace on, soft music playing, no children crying, me sitting on the couch with a mug of tea....Ahhhhhh pure bliss.

Now picture hearing a duck quack.....can you hear it, can you? This is what I kept hearing....
I kept hearing my lovely husband in the garage blowing his duck calls. Apparently he was practicing the different calls while he was working.

After an annoying 15-20 minutest that was cutting into my rest time I went out there to politely ask him to stop. This is what I encountered......

Enough said.............pictures speak volumes..........Men are boys at heart!
(someone was "practicing" hunting in the garage)

Not Me Monday!

This past week, no matter what anyone tells you to the contrary, I most certainly did not:

• I did not after weeks of fussing & yes complaining get my new stroller. Only to be too impatient to wait for my husband to put it together. So my 1 yr old and I did not spend the morning reading the directions and putting it together. Nope the proper thing would have been to wait, right?
• This mama did not then promptly take the stroller out for the afternoon. And proclaim over and over " I love this stroller " to anyone who would listen.
• Upon removing my daughter's pony tails the other night I did not tell her "this is the price we pay for beauty" when she cried while I was removing the rubber bands. (even though I may have wound them too tight that morning)
• This mama did not cry the day her husband went back to work - after being off for 5 weeks on maternity leave. And then continue to cry off and on all day. Even though she told him she'd be fine and was ready for a routine to start again.
• This mama isn't continuing to eat like she is pregnant. So the home made cinnamon rolls with cream cheese frosting, brownies, hashbrown casserole and stuffed shells that appeared in our home this week - I didn't make them. Nope cause this mama is trying to work on being good when it comes to eating again.
  

Fun with Grandpa

Ellia had some fun playing with Grandpa D the other day. Just too cute to not show off.

How'd you get out there Grandpa?

Hey, where'd he go?

Adilynn's nursery COMPLETED

Remember this room? How could you forget it? Well it went bye-bye and see what took it's place...........




Well here is the new room..............What do you think?

I love Adilynn's room. It is so cute but in a very sophisticated cute. Not too girly - do you know what I mean? It's so bright & vibrant. A complete difference from her big sisters room.

The final saga of our New Stroller

So this is my new double stroller. Ellia and I put it together yesterday all by ourselves. Rather I put it together and Ellia played with all the box materials. We even took it out for a stroll yesterday as we were so excited. You can see Ellia's excitement can't you??

This is my 2nd double stroller. Bill previously had purchased a stroller but once we had Addie and I had to use it......well lets just say it didn't quite work for me. So my wonderful husband ran all over letting me test double strollers. Many stores later and a trip to a fellow MOPS mom's house early one morning and I decided it was the Graco Quatro Tour Duo.

I LOVE this stroller!!! It turns so easily, has a large basket underneath, our carseat fits even though it's not a Graco one, there's a nice handy place for your keys, and the colors are nice - dont ya think?

Super post Saturday

Today is Super Post Saturday. Look for several posts as I catch up.

To my darling 1 month old daughter

Yesterday, my sweet darling baby girl you turned 1 month old and wow has time flown by. You came into this world 1 month early & ready for the adventures that life will bring.
You were welcomed joyfully by Daddy, Mommy, Big Sister Ellia as well as lots of other family & friends. We were so excited to finally hold you & see your sweet face.

Today we took you for your 1 month check up. You weighed in at 8lbs and 20 inches long. You are making a slow but steady climb into being a big girl. As your doctor said today "She is on the petite side". Which is fine with us as we know you'll catch up with your big sister soon.

In just a month you have brought me so much joy. I love when you are awake and looking all around exploring this big world. Or when you are nursing and I catch you staring up at me. This melts my heart to pieces. Your sweet smell is so wonderful and when that baby smell is gone I'm sure I'll cry as I did with your big sister. I didn't realize how much I missed having a tiny baby around.

Your conception was a bit of a surprise to mommy and daddy. But not a mistake or accident by any means. As you were created out of love on the love day - Valentines Day! And for that we are so grateful.

Soon enough you will be a big girl playing with your big sister and getting into trouble I'm sure. But for now I will snuggle with you and enjoy every moment.

I love you sweet Adilynn!

Not Me Monday!

Not Me Monday post - a little earlier than Monday morning.

This past week, no matter what anyone tells you to the contrary, I most certainly did not:

• No matter what the Walmart worker tells you this mama did not walk into the men's restroom by mistake. I thought the fact that the restroom only had 2 stalls - one of which was out of order was strange for a women's bathroom. Then I looked to my left and saw the urinals all against the wall. (obviously no men were in the restroom) I quickly turned around to exit and ran into two men whom both were laughing and one said "chose the wrong restroom, huh?" Don't believe the walmart worker - it wasn't me.
• Upon our drive to Portland to see extended family my husband made a stop at Cabela's where this mama spent 2.5 hours strolling around looking at camping gear, fishing poles, lots & lots of camouflage clothes and dead animals with our girls. At the same time trying to keep her girls behaved & trying to have a good attitudewhile my husband bought a new shotgun. ( I did somehow by the Grace of God manage to keep a good attitude.)
• While in Cabela's this mama most certainly did not let her 1yr old crawl under the bathroom stall door cause it would be easier than picking her up. (Did I mention she crawled under the stall next to me first - with a woman in there? ) Having her walk out of the stall would've been a better mama thing to do, right?
• When the Costco cashier told me "Ms. you really need to get a photo on your card" - This mama did not say to her "My husband is a manager at Costco and we usually shop at his store so I'm really not too concerned about my photo" - with the cashier replying "I understand that but you really should think about getting a photo" - And then when I complained to my husband hoping to get some support he told me "She was just doing her job"
• This week I got some new clothes for winter. A few new sweaters, a pair of jeans and some winter shirts. Giddy with excitement I raced home to clean out my closet and hang up all my new clothes. Cleaning out meant packing up 2 years of maternity clothes - which felt SOOOO good. While packing up the maternity clothes I came across a brown maternity tee-shirt that had big purple "G" on it with the words "It's a girl" across the belly. I realized I hadn't worn this shirt while pregnant the 2ND time around. And this mama did not sit down on the closet floor and start crying. Nope cause that would mean after 4 weeks she was still hormonal. And being hormonal & emotional 4weeks post delivery couldn't possibly be alright?
• This mama did not race around the house on MOPS Tuesday trying to get the girls ready, diaper bag packed & make her hash brown casserole only to burn herself on the oven. And this mama most certainly did not go ahead to MOPS even though her husband insisted she should go to the doctor. To only later humbly call her husband and say "I think I need to go to the doctor" - which resulted in a 2ND degree burn diagnosis, cream & bandages and oh yeah.....a tetanus shot.
• Yesterday this mama did not ask her husband to travel to not 1 but 3 baby stores in the Portland area to look at double strollers. And we are going to another one today! All in the name of finding the "perfect" double stroller.
  

MOPS Tuesdays

I love Tuesdays - at least the ones that come every other week. This is when the "girls" and I head off to join other moms & kids for MOPS.

Joining MOPS was a BIG step for me but one I am glad I made. I have met lots of wonderful ladies, had great conversation, GREAT food, and some fun crafts too.

This Tuesday I decided to try a dry run at getting myself and the girls ready & out the door all on my own. Bill is still home on maternity leave till next week. So he worked in the garage & on computer while I scurried around the house to get ready. Did I mention it was my week to help bring food?

So everything is going well until 8:30 - 15 minutes before I needed to leave. I check on my hash brown casserole and it's not done cooking, mind you it had been in there already for 25 min. Then I remember how my oven cooks slower so a 325 degree recipe has to be cooked at 350. I quickly turn it up to 400 to give it an extra umph in cooking. My sweet husband volunteers to go get me a latte since now I wont have time to stop for one.

While he is gone I finish getting everything ready. Girls coats on - Check, Diaper bag packed - Check, purse & keys - Check, casserole out of the oven - Check OR NOT. Upon pulling the pan out of the oven my forearm touches the oven door. I can feel it burning but if I drop the pan I wont have anything to take to MOPS. I save the hash brown casserole - good thing too as it was a hit.

But I have a 3 inch 2nd degree burn on my arm. After insistence from my husband to go to doctor I head off to MOPS. While there several other moms tell me "you need to go to the doctor". So I call make an appointment and call my husband so he can meet me at appointment to help with the girls.

Burn medicine, bandages & a Tetnus shot later and I'm all good. I don't remember a tetnus shot hurting this much. Let me tell you it hurts!! Good thing I got it in my burned arm (thanks to my husband who suggested I not get it in my good arm - boy am I glad I listened to him)

Lesson learned - Do anything to save the MOPS food ;o)

Not Me Monday!

This past week, no matter what anyone tells you to the contrary, I most certainly did not:

• This mama most certainly did not say to the medical assistant upon arrival at the doctors office "We are not 9 minutes late, we were only 2 minutes late. We had to wait for those 7 minutes because all 3 receptionist were busy with other patients & 2 of them were training new people" And this mama's husband did not have to elbow her for being so rude. Nope that wasn't me. (Ok, it was.....and I did find the gal and apologize on our way out)

• When we were at the mall trick or treating we lost these cute barrettes that Grandma gave Ellia. And I did not shed a few tears because we couldn't find them later.

• For a party this past weekend I made one of my most requested cake recipes, Pumpkin-Praline Cake (for my good friend who LOVES this cake). Half the cake was left over and this morning the other half is almost entirely gone. And it wouldn't be because Bill has eaten it because he hates pumpkin. Could it be me who has eaten almost the other half? Who me? Couldn't be, Then who? (remember that kids song "who stole the cookie from the cookie jar?")

• This past Thursday night I did not have a break down crying yet again over Thanksgiving......and end up in a BIG fight with Bill over holidays and family. Which resulted in my friend calling and playing referee between Bill and I at 9:30 at night. Nope that wasn't us at all - we are perfectly resolved to stay home and miss Thanksgiving this year with our extended family. Yeah right!!!

Wow, this week I didn't have as many confessions! This could be a bad thing or it could be a good thing Hmmmmmmmmm. Guess we'll see how this week turns out ;o)

Pumpkin Patch

Ellia and Daddy trying to catch a trout

Ellia loved riding in the wagon with the pumpkins

Maybe this wasn't such a good idea??

Our Family

Our pumpkin patch visit was long - no thanks to Bill & Ellia trying to catch a trout. We picked this particular pumpkin patch because of the Trout fishing pond. We arrived & met up with our friends and proceeded to pick out our pumpkins. All was good.

Then we headed across the street to get into the activity area of the patch. Which included face painting, bouncy pumpkin house, fishing, train rides, giant hamster wheel rides and a big "corn kernel" box (like a sand box). Mind you it cost $7.00 per person to get into this activity area. And none of the other activities Ellia was old enough for. We were simply paying to fish.

However, Bill was willing to pay this so that Ellia could catch her first fish. Lets just say that $21.00 and over an 1hr later we left without a single fish. Yeppers, the fishing was a bust! Ellia was tired & bored and Addie was hungry. Bill was very disappointed and I was shocked at how disappointed he truly was!

Other than the fishing bust we had a great time at the pumpkin patch as you can see in our photos.

Pure Bliss

In the last 24hrs I have had some Pure Bliss moments:

• Dinner out with my husband last night at PF Changs. G & G watched the girls and for 2 hours we talked, gazed into each other's eyes, ate a great dinner & then enjoyed their Chocolate cake with raspberry sauce......DELISH!! We then visited Lowes for some wiring supplies for Bill's boat and I got the BEST magazine. Taste of Home - Thanksgiving edition. It was a very nice evening out. (except for the episode where I broke down crying yet again about Thanksgiving)
• This morning I made Pumpkin Pecan muffins with struessel topping. Oh my gosh these are my new favorite muffins of all time. And where did I get the recipe? Out of my new Taste of Home magazine I got last night.
  

• This afternoon I enjoyed 2 wonderful hours of peacefulness at In Spa. A friend bought me a gift certificate to celebrate Addie's birth. Which today I used to buy a pedicure & eye brow waxing. It was pure heaven!

Please pray for baby Stellan

Please pray for Baby Stellan - he is going to make his grand entrance tomorrow morning. You can check out his story on his mom's blog at My Charming Kids.

Please pray that his heart works great & that the doctors are clothed in wisdom as they meet their newest patient.

Baby Stellan I can't wait to see pictures of you & to hear how awesome your birth went. We are praying for you.

Meals on wheels

So this is a quick blog to thank all our wonderful friends, family & MOPS mom's who delivered meals to Team Detlor before & after Addie's birth.

Two days ago I cooked our first meal in 2.5 weeks. Yes, that's right we had meals almost every day cooked for us at our house or delivered to our house. And do u know what I cooked? - Tuna casserole. So quick & easy but not as good as all the meals we had. Every meal was delicious - Shepherds Pie, Turkey & stuffing casserole, Enchiladas, Meatloaf, Pot Roast & mashed potatoes and the list goes on. And the desserts that came with them.......don't even get me started on those.

Team Detlor is BLESSED to have such great friends......many who read this blog Anonymously ..... So we wanted to extend a BIG Thank You!! And we can't wait to do some cooking for you!

Not Me Monday!

This past week, no matter what anyone tells you to the contrary, I most certainly did not:

• After visiting the doctor & using our new double stroller have a breakdown about the new stroller and how much I dislike it. With tears, snotty nose & everything right there in the doctors office. Only frustrating my husband who did all this research on the stroller and found it on ebay for hundreds of dollars less. Nope this wasn't me.

• I did not ask my husband to change yesterday before going to church with my in laws because I felt he was "too dressed up". Only because I am 2.5 weeks post delivery and cannot fit any "normal" clothes. Which resulted in me having to wear jeans to church. (which at our church would've been okay, but at in laws church not such a good idea) I didn't want him to be all dressy, dressy and me look like a bum next to him.

• This past week I did not get completely overwhelmed by the fact that my parents are coming for 3 whole weeks at Christmas. Which if you know my parents - you understand that this is a very LONG time. I love my parents, but come on can anyone live with their parents for 3 weeks - during the holidays??? Nope I am totally handling this like a champ.

• I did not contemplate cutting my own hair this week. My hair is sooo long & my roots have at least 3 inches of grow out. So in a fit of frustration this week I almost certainly did not take out the scissors and think " I can do this, how hard can it be" - only to put them back in the drawer and walk away from mirror in a ponytail.

• Our daughter Ellia did not find a dirty diaper of her sisters - and I mean "dirty" - and begin playing in it - even putting the wipes in her mouth - cause everything goes in her mouth. And how did she find this dirty diaper? - Couldn't have been because mommy forgot to put it in the diaper pail when she was done changing the baby. Nope cause this mommy's memory is 100% back to normal. Yeah Right - I wish.

• Having struggles with the fact that our normal Thanksgiving plans might not work out this year. And if that happens to be the case I want to host Thanksgiving dinner at our house, but my MIL wants to host at her house. And cause I am soo stubborn & emotionally unstable I am not willing to back down yet......It's okay to be a bit stubborn & emotionally unstable still, right?

• One more - just for MckMama - in her Not Me Monday post - she wondered about how much pee a diaper can hold...... A TON - but this mama isn't ready to tell just how she knows this - at least not yet. ;o)
  

Ahhh, it's been a crazy week here for Team Detlor. But this sure feels good.

Grace

Have I told you lately that I am married to the BEST man in the world? He really deserves a better wife most days. I am not the easiest woman to live with or get along with. Especially when pregnant or in pregnancy blues. Things spill out my mouth like Niagara Falls. And my husband just takes it all in - much like a visitor to the falls - in ahh and disbelief. This pretty much sums up our week so far and it's only Wed night.

However, tonight I went to Bible Study - haven't been in a few weeks with the birth of Addie but something was drawing me tonight......the Lord. We were studying Grace. And how Grace is what were given and not what we necessarily always deserve.

The best of example I've ever heard of Justice, Mercy & Grace is as follows:

A young man is killed in a random act of violence, the father tracks down the killer and the killer is arrested, tried, convicted and executed, we'd call that Justice.

If at trial the father pleads for the murderer's life to be spared and the judge & jury consent, we'd call that Mercy.

Now imagine that in addition to pleading for the murderer's life the father then appeals to the judge to release the offender into his custody and care. Miraculously gaining the approval, the father takes the young man into his heart, home and adopts the man, raising him as his own & loving him as he did his murdered son.....that would be Grace.

J.I. Packer says that "Grace is God's love flowing freely to the unlovely"

I have been unlovely to my husband and I as much as I will try not to be I will again soon I'm sure. But I was reminded tonight of how much Grace there is - that my husband's actions are full of Grace. And Grace isn't what I deserve but what Bill gives me. Which is exactly what the Lord does for us.

How thankful I am today to be married to Bill and to be saved by the blood of Jesus who washes away my unlovely words and actions.

Not Me Monday!

This past week, no matter what anyone tells you to the contrary, I most certainly did not:

Wear flip flops to church and have one of them break. Which meant that I had to pick up Ellia from nursery, visit with friends and walk out to the car with only one shoe on. Let me add it was cold yesterday. Nope not me.

This busy mamma did not let her oldest daughter walk around in her dirty diaper for almost 45 minutes while she cleaned the kitchen, fed baby#2 and then started a load of laundry. That would be just wrong.

The three of us, Ellia, Addie & myself did not have a break down last week when daddy went to work for a few hours. Which resulted in all 3 of us crying & calling him on the phone to see when he was coming home. Being the great man that he is - he hung up with me, called our neighbor and asked her to come over to help/rescue me. She did of course and calmed all three of us right down. That night Bill returned home with a bouquet of roses and the new People magazine. Ahh, all was better.

I haven't on at least 2 occassions this week told Bill, "I dont think I can handle this" - nope not me. I'm a champ - afterall I delivered a baby naturally, right?

I did not get the girls ready & rush my husband to get ready so we could get to the consignment store on time to consign some old clothes only to have a melt down and tell Bill "I just want to go by myself and have some "Me" time". Nope that wasn't me. And if you think you saw a woman looking like me sitting in starbucks enjoying a pumpkin spice latte & some quiet moments an hour later - that wasn't me either.

4 Things

Julie tagged me to complete my "4" list. Soooo here we go:

4 Things I was doing 10 years ago:

• Celebrating my 21st birthday. I did not have a 21 run, but had a quiet dinner with friends.

• Going to community college and working towards my pre-recs for Nursing

• Working as youth leader for Jr. Highers at my old church. I love JR highers - they are soooo funny and fun to be with.

• Coming to terms with my parent, my relationship with them & it was a hard time.

4 things on my list today or rather tomorrow (as it's 9pm):

• Church
• Our good friends are coming over for lunch after church & to meet Ms. Addie
• Stamp club - which is at my house
  
• Going to the pumpkin patch after stamp club with some good friends. I hope we can get some cute pics of the girls & a good family photo.

4 Random things I love about my husband:

• His patience - he is so patient with me and trust me I know it's hard for him at times
• The way he looks in a baseball hat. That was a major turn on for me when I saw him in a baseball hat on our 2ND date - took my breath away.
• The fact that he is a die hard Boston Redsox fan - not cause they've recently won world series but because his Grandpa was and it rubbed off on Bill. (guess where he is right now, watching the game - they just won cause he came in and said "how about a little Sunday night baseball game tomorrow?"
• How he is so particular about getting our girls room's "perfect" - he has decorated both of their rooms & hand painted all the bugs/flowers/their names etc himself.

4 Jobs I've had:

• My first job was at Drug Emporium as a cashier.
  

• Daycare worker - this job sucked!! I hated it. I think this is why I didn't want to have kids but that all changed obviously.
• Swing shift at a nursing home- where my grandmother lived. I loved this job! Although the hours weren't the greatest. I got to spend lots of time with my grandmother (she died about a year later) and old people are my favorite. Ask my husband - he will tell you how much I love old people.
• Billing specialist at a company I wont name. The people I worked were great! But company & management not the best. I am much happier at home with my girls.

4 movies I've watched more than once:

• Dirty Dancing
  
• 16 Candles
• Godfather Series (#1 is the BEST)
• How to Loose a guy in 10 days

4 places I've lived:

• Jacksonville Florida - where I was born
• Issaquah Wash - where we 1st lived when we moved to Seattle
• Redmond, Wash - through High school
• Mukilteo, Wash - where I lived prior to meeting Bill. I loved my apartment there & was sad to give it up. It was so small but cute.

4 places I want to visit:

• Hawaii - Bill and I talk about for our 5yr anniversary
• Italy - specifically Ronca - where my family is from
• New York - as a tourist - I went right after 9-11 and helped with relief efforts but didn't get to see much of the city.
• Mexico - cause it's warm there

4 T.V. shows I watch:

• Grays Anatomy
• Survivor
• The Big Bang Theory - anyone watch this? It's soooo funny
• College Football on Saturdays - not an actual show but hey its darn worth putting down.

4 Things you may not know about me:

• That I never wanted to get married & "take care of a man, a house or be barefoot & pregnant" - oh how my life has changed - For the GOOD!!!
• That I tend to make up my own words or language. I like to say things the way I think they should be said not necessarily how they should be said - Bill says it's one of the things he loves about me.
• That I want to finish my nursing degree one day & I think work in Labor and Delivery. After both births now I've found myself more and more wanting to give back to other woman the way my nurses gave to me.
• That I used to be the biggest tomboy ever. And up until about 5 years ago never wore makeup, skirts or a dress, high heels - nothing girly. Then one day I woke up and decided it was time for a change. And look at me today - all girl. Except for the occasional baseball hat & jeans day.
• And one more just for fun - I just typed this all up with Ms.Addie in my lap at the computer ;o)
  

Adilynn's Birth Story - part 4

Forgot to attach the photo of Jen and I in the last post. This was our first nurse Jen that we made instant connections with & loved.

So where are we??..........Oh, yes so doctor broke my water at 8:30 am. Now I should note that by this point I had pretty much decided I was going to go natural. No drugs. I'd made it to 7cm and was feeling okay. After my water was broken the contractions picked up pretty quickly in intensity, pain & frequency. At this point we had to say goodbye to Jen and our next nurse came on. Or rather our nursing "team" of Christine and Angela. They were great as well. We are pretty lucky to deliver our girl's at such a great hospital.
The great thing about going natural is you get to be in control. You get to decide what you are going to do to help labor. You get to make all the decisions and aren't trapped in a bed like you are when you have an epidural. At 9am I decided to try bouncing on an exercise ball. This is suppose to help in the gravity department with the widening of your cervix. I bounced and swayed for an hour!
Then I moved onto the counter where I laid with a pillow and did squats. Again with gravity and momentum thing hoping to speed things along. When Angela checked me at 10 am I was at 8 cm and still 90% effaced. I actually said "You've got to be kidding me" - but in all reality 1 cm in an hour was good. About this time G & G arrived at the hospital with Ellia. We wanted Ellia to be brought in after I was cleaned up to meet Adilynn. So Grandma slipped into the room & Grandpa watched Ellia in the hallway. Auntie Susan, Auntie Melissa and Grandma were all going to be there when Adilynn decided to make her debut.
About 10:30 I told Bill "I don't think I can do this any longer" and he said "Yes, you can baby, you're almost there". The contractions were coming about 2-3 minutes and they were STRONG & INTENSE. I say that in capital letters cause they really did hurt. I was managing but I was also getting tired. Contractions take a lot out of you. Bill said I was like in a different place, I was so focused, so in tune with my body, breathing and concentrating. I wasn't saying much just breathing. However, I think it was about this point that I did say "When this over I want an Outback steak dinner" to which Bill said "Baby, you finish this up and you can have whatever kinda of steak dinner you want". And then at another point I did say "Damn that Eve".
***Warning*** potty talk to follow
At 10:40 I began to feel GIANT pressure in my rear - like you're going to take a big dump. It would not go away - which is the indication that you are at 10cm and ready to push. I began saying over and over "I have to poop, I have to poop, I'm going to poop". Christine checked me and said "You're at a 10 and completely effaced - were going to call the doctor". So Angela picks up the phone and calls - talks to someone as I breath through another contraction. Christine asks her if she talked to Dr. Cardwell. To which she says "No I talked to her secretary". Christine says "Call her back and tell her we need her now". At this point I am starting to freak out cause I really, really, really feel like I am going to poop on the table and I actually say "If the doctor doesn't get her soon I am going to poop all over this table". Just about this time the doctor comes rushing in & begins gloving up. This all takes place in about 7 minutes. I ask "can I push" and am told not yet. The doctor takes her place - at the head of the table (ha,ha) and tells me on the next contraction to push.

One push, two push, three pushes and at 10:57 am Adilynn Danese Detlor came zipping out. She literally came out very fast. She weighed in at 6lbs 10 oz and almost 19 inches long. Pretty good size for a preemie - which technically she is since she was born at 36 weeks.

Bill and Dr. Cardwell shortly after Adilynn's birth.
I need to say that as great as Adilynn's birth was Ellia's was equally as special and fun. I enjoyed both my daughters births!! And I have to give Kudos to my husband. He is the BEST coach EVER!!!! He helped me to stay focused, counted with me, breathed right along side me, rubbed my back - you name it he did it. And without him I wouldn't have been able to deliver Adilynn let alone go natural.

WoooHoooo - new page layout &picture

Three cheers for my husband Bill!! He helped me figure out the html coding tonight.
I love this page - Fall is my favorite time of year.


p.s. keep your eyes open for some pumpkin patch pics soon of our "little pumpkins"

Adilynn's Birth Story - part 3

So we are admitted to our room - 2150 - which is next door to the room we were in a year ago delivering Ellia. Funny huh?

We get all hooked up to the machines, monitors, IV in and settled into the bed. It's 2:30 am and we turn the down the lights to get some rest until Miss Adilynn decides it's time to come. Sometime around 4am ish Auntie Susan shows up. She is going to be in the labor room when Adilynn comes.
The three of us get some more rest. Well the 2 of them do, I rest between contractions which are still about 5-6 minutes apart but manageable.

At 5am I start thinking/salivating about McDonalds breakfast. No really I can taste a Bacon, Egg & Cheese biscuit. Which the last time I had about 3 months before made me sick & I threw up. So I've stayed away from McDonalds since then. But crazy what you think will satisfy you when you're in labor. So Susan offers to make a run to get breakfast. I take her up on the offer - cause if I'm going to have an epidural later I wanted to make sure I'd eaten. Breakfast comes and it's GREAT!! Hits the spot. I scarf down half the biscuit and am fully satisfied.

About 6am I decide to get up and walk around for a bit. So I put on those pleasant underwear they give you after labor. Ya know the "breezy" ones? Yeah, Jen tells me you might want to have something on in case your water breaks while you're walking the hospital floors. We walk around the 4 of us. Bill, Susan, Me & my new friend Mr. IV pole. My best friend Melissa shows up shortly later and we become 5 walking around the hospital floors.

At 6:30 the on call doctor comes in. Gives me an EXAM. Tells me I am almost a 7 and still just about 90% effaced. We decide to wait till the next on call doctor comes on after 7:30 before administering any drugs or breaking my water. Which still hadn't broken by this point. So we continue the walking just the "5 of us".

Later about 8:30 the next on call doctor - the one who would deliver Adilynn comes into meet us & examine me. (my doctor was off this day) She examines me and says "you're still a 7 and 90%, but if I break your water it will speed things up & bring on labor faster". I tell her "Go for it, break that bag, lets get this rolling". She brings out her long crochet needle thing (it really looks like a crochet needle) and breaks my water. The water starts to trickle out. Not the RUSH I felt with Ellia by any means. She leaves and says "I'll see you again very soon"

Adilynn Birth Story - part 2

We started out for the hospital and after getting down the road a bit realized G & G didn't have a key to our car "if" something was to happen. So we turned around & dropped off the key with our neighbor who came over to watch Ellia till G & G arrived.

Then we were finally on our way to the hospital. Since it was 1:30am when we arrived the hospital doors were locked to Maternity ward. We were buzzed in and walked to the nurses station. After the obligatory paperwork they showed us to a triage room. Think ER the television show. Each bed is secluded by only drapes. Luckily no one was there and we had the whole room to ourselves. Our nurse was Jen. She turned out to be fabulously (is that a word?) funny. She put us at ease and made us laugh. All good things at that point. The contractions were coming pretty regularly 5 minutes apart.

Jen had to ask us some questions and do some more paperwork. During this process, she's at the computer typing, Bill's sitting in the chair and I am lying on the bed breathing through each contraction. Jen tells us she is a newlywed - married 19 days. Met online & moved across country to be with him. So of course it was an instant connection. We become fast friends the 3 of us. At one point she asks me "Any recent sex?" to which I reply "yeah on Sunday" and she says "Ahh, that's not recent sweety" and I replied back "it is for a 9 month pregnant lady" - we all laugh and it's time for the EXAM.

I tell her this Exam better be worth it. She does her thing - you know what I mean and says "Is 5 worth it?" to which I was like "what? - 5 what?" and she laughs "5 cm dear" - Bill and I exchange looks and he asks her what is the next step................."Call the Grandparents, you're having a baby today"

Not Me Monday!

So I am trying the "Not Me Mondays" blog that I found over at my new favorite blog - My Charming Kids. We'll see how my honesty list compares.


This past week I did not give birth to my 2nd daughter 4 weeks earlier than expected. And deliver her naturally - no drugs. And if you listened closely at the door to room 2150 you did not hear the following words uttered during labor......"Damm that Eve" and "when this over I want an Outback steak dinner"

I did not this past week start making my daughter wear pony tails in her hair. Even though they stick straight up & down. And I most certainly do not make her sit there while I put them in each morning, even if she is crying.

Today I did not allow my daughter to eat something off the floor left over from my baby shower yesterday. And tell her "it's okay, Melissa comes to clean on Wednesday"

I most certainly did not get upset with my husband when we were headed to his job today and he remembered he forgot his maternity leave paperwork. Which meant we had to turn around and go home to retrieve. Nope, I did not get a bit frustrated in that moment.

And today when Ellia was whining for 20 minutes straight I did not get frustrated with her and tell her "enough is enough". When can you blame the kid, her world has been rocked upside down this week. Nope that wasn't me.

And it wasn't me who later told my husband that having a whining child "isn't acceptable" and "I will not stand for it" Nope that wasn't me either.

This wife & mother did not leave her family for 45 minutes tonight downstairs watching the baseball game while she checked email, blog, facebook and myspace. Which while checking realized she doesn't have time for this many things. Somewhere she must draw the line.

Just now when I asked my husband to help me change my blog background and was shot down - this wife/mother did not walk away sad & frustrated and wishing I knew more about computers & html coding. (this blog will be updated soon- keep watching)

Wow, this honesty thing is kinda of a relief. I might have to start doing this thing weekly.

Adilynn's Birth Story - part 1

So most of you know by now that Adilynn came early - 4 weeks early to be precise. The next few blogs will tell her birth story & pics will be posted along the way.

Last Thursday 10-9-08 (cool birthday numbers huh? thanks to my friend LeAnne for pointing out) our sweet baby#2 arrived. She is already proving to be an intricate part of our family & we are enjoying every moment with her.

So I should start with - last Monday 10-6-08 had a regular checkup & ultrasound. Addie was measuring at just about 6lbs (give or take a pound in either direction) And upon examination I was already 50% effaced and 3 cm dialated. Bill said to my doctor "we were hoping to keep her in there till the end of the month" and my doctor looked at him and said "I dont see that happening". We left in shock, flustered & anxious. We were going to be having a baby much sooner than anticipated.

Tueday 10-7-08 - Contractions start & are 8-10 minutes apart for 4 hours. We do not get excited & call hospital. We wait them out, I take a bath, drink some tea, eat a brownie & go to bed. Nothing more happens.

Wed 10-8-08 - G & G come out to our house to help out for the day, paint the nursery furniture, do some laundry, ya know general help around the house. My best friend Melissa also comes out & cooks us dinner. I have 4 contractions all day - no worries. G & G leave at about 8:30 and say
"well things seem to have calmed down, we'll call tomorrow" as they head out the door. In the back my mind I think "their going to be back here tonight"

Bill & I head up to bed, only after I ask him to help me sweep & mop the kitchen floor. He tells me "No Gina, we aren't doing that, we are going to bed". I do get him to agree to fold a load of baby blankets just finished in the dryer and we head to bed. I preceed to take a shower & shave EVERYTHING - you know what I mean. Something told me to get Extra clean!! We head to bed. At 11:30 I wake up with contractions. I time them and they are just about 5 mins apart & painfull. I wake up Bill at almost midnight. At 12:15 we call hospital and are told to come in. We make that call to G & G to come back to house to stay with Ellia and we head into the hospital..........

So little time

My thoughts lately on the phrase "So little time".................

So little time to get things ready for Addie. Her room is still not put together.

So little time for my husband to get everything accomplished at work before he heads out for 5 weeks maternity leave.

So little time left that I am only a mom to one baby. Soon I will be a mommy to two beautiful girls.

So little time before Ellia's doctor appointment today and we are still not dressed or ready.

So little time that I get Ellia all to myself. Only time to spend with her reading, laughing, snuggling and spending one on one mommy time. Time not having to be shared with another. I actually thought of this yesterday on my way home from MOPS and started to cry.

So little time to get the house cleaned for my shower on Sunday.

So little time and some how making it to the pumpkin patch seems like it may not happen this year.

Sighhhhhhhhh, gues that's what happens when you are pregnant & life still goes on all around you. You just move at a slower pace & things may or may not get done. And I am slowly learning that this is OKAY.

Big Day for Team Detlor

We went to the doctor for our now weekly appointments for Ms. Adilynn. We had a scheduled Ultrasound to determine if she was ginormous as I was predicting. However, the ultrasound showed that she is just about average - right around 6lbs. Which is 47% percentile for her age in utero. So she is not too big or too little - just about average.

Then we had our first physical exam. For those of you who've been pregnant this is the day you wait for. The day to see if you are progressing towards delivery any time soon. To our surprise I am 50 % effaced and 3 cm dilated. So I am WELL on my way to delivery. Mind you I am 35 weeks and 5 days today. So Bill says to my doctor "we were hoping to keep her in till end of the month" and my doctor matter of fact looks at Bill and says "I don't see that happening".
Sooooooo, it would appear that our sweet baby#2 is well on her way to making an entrance into our world.

Bill and I left in shock and a bit flustered. We still have many things to get done around the house ie....dresser painted, changing table painted, hang her name & ladybugs on the walls, sort through all the clothes from Ellia, garage cleaned so I can park car with 2 babies in it and not to mention my list of "nesting" items that still exists - 2 more closets to organize.

Then today Ellia decided to walk. Yep, that's right she walked across the room from Bill to me. Now she has been taking 2-4 steps unassisted for at least a week - from one piece of furniture to the other. But when you try to get her to walk from one person to another she wont do it. Stubborn - don't know where she gets that from ;o) However, today she just took off. We (or rather Bill) of course ran downstairs to grab the video camera & phones - we had to document for all the grandparents.

And she has also discovered the cabinets. Now that she can walk around she went from one cupboard to the next opening them & sometimes removing things. And she smashed her fingers at least 2x tonight. Looks like we also need to add our child locks to that list of things!

Will post pics of Ellia walking - not sure how to post video. And keep blog updated as to when Ellia's "Irish Twin" arrives.


p.s. Go Boston!!!!

Happy Belated Birthday Baby Girl

So last night I blogged about my nesting insanity and went to bed. Totally forgetting to post a blog about my sweet baby girl's 1st birthday. I awoke in the middle of the night to crying, we are teething and I remembered I hadn't blogged about it.

One year ago, yesterday, Miss Ellia you decided to make your Grand Entrance to our world. You just couldn't wait any longer and decided it was time - 18 days early. My water broke at 4am and You were born at 4:12pm.

This past year we've laughed & cried as we've watched our baby girl grow. You Miss Ellia have brought so much laughter, love & joy into our home. You are the apple of our eyes and we thank God every day that we have been blessed with such a sweet girl. And that God would give us the honor of raising you to be a Godly woman.

You're all that a mother could ask for and raising a little girl has/will teach me so much about life. I love picking out your clothes, matching your shoes to your outfits, seeing you smile, and putting barrettes/ribbons in your hair (now that you have enough hair).

I know that your world is about to be rocked around with the birth of your little sister. But you will always be my first! You are the one that taught me how to be a mom, how to love unconditionally, and what patience is all about - which I am still developing. You changed my life for the good and I am a better woman, wife and mom all because you are in my life.

I love you Miss Ellia and always will.

Nesting

So it has begun - Nesting. I've tried to hold it off as long as possible but it has hit with a mighty vengeance. Back a few months ago I made a "Nesting List" - a list of all the extra cleaning that I wanted to get done before Addie joined our family. I taped it to the cupboard in the kitchen and it has slowly grown. I can't explain my need/want/desire to clean & organize. As if Addie will care what our closets look like. But all I know is that it must be done before she arrives.

Yesterday I started by organizing our master bath linen closet, then I moved to Ellia's room and organized her closet & new dresser. Then as if that wasn't enough I went back to our room and organized my dresser.

Today I had my friend who comes to clean 2x a month take out every thing in the cupboards and wipe them out & then helped her reorganize them a bit. If that wasn't enough on top of cleaning my filthy house (still dirty from the big party) I had her wipe down all the door jams in the house. She was happy to do it and insisted on tackling some of my "nesting" list. She said she'd come next week, not a normal cleaning day, and tackle a few more things on the "list".

Friday my friend is coming over for a play date and said she'd help with anything I wanted. So guess what were going to do??? Were going to organize the main linen closet in the hall.
Anyone want to join us?

Birthday Party

The day started with sunshine a huge answer to prayer. And it was then that I knew the day was going to be Fantastic.

And boy was I right the party went off GREAT. We had tons of people show up to help celebrate Ellia's 1st birthday. At one point we had 50+ people in our house & outside in the yard. Of which there were about 15 children - All under the age of 8. Can we say LOUD??
We celebrated with hotdogs, burgers, baked beans, potato salad & lots of country music.

Ellia had a good time I'm sure. She was a bit overwhelmed at first but as the day wore on she settled down and did great. I'm sure she thinks it was the BEST party ever! I didnt get that many pics - I will highjack Auntie Susan's and Grandpa Detlors this week & post some more pics later.

Chalkboard in kitchen with special saying for the day

Cowboy Family - pre party

Giddy Up Cowgirl

Auntie Sabrina made Ellia's special cake - it was all for her. Didn't she do a good job??

Daddy pulled some strings & had a special cake made at Costco. I think the bakery dept did a GREAT Job!!

Starting to dig in

More fun in the cake

What's left of the cake afterwards

Ellia playing in the hay crawl. She found a thing of twizzlers and was finished. Had no desire to finish playing in the hay. She just sat there trying to open the twizzlers.

2nd post today -

So Bill calls and wants to talk birthday cake earlier today. I tell him I want something like GiddyUp Cowgirl. Other than that I don't care. He then exclaims "You don't want Happy 1st Birthday on the cake?" and I said "nope not really"
He then asks what flavor cake & what color frosting. Again I say "I don't care", "You pick"
I can hear in my husband's voice that he is frustrated with me and a little surprised at the same time. I know what he's thinking - she doesn't care? with all the party planning & prep - and she doesn't care about the cake???

And ya know what? I don't. I know it sounds crazy but at this point I've obsessed so much that I have to let one thing just go. (Plus I think it helps that Auntie Sabrina is making Ellia her own cake - so the Costco cake isn't her "real" cake - it's the cake for everyone else)